| In a relationship when do you draw the line with privacy? I asked my boyfriend this question "In our relationship would you say that what's my business is your business and what's your business is my business?" And he said "No, You shouldn't be in my business because its mine not yours." And I totally respect that. So I said to him "So you shouldn't be in my business because its mine not yours?" And he says back "It depends are what your doing.." Now this is where I got a little pissed. And I came back by saying "So your business IS my business depending on what YOUR doing?" And he said "No. Because its none of your business."
So this got me super heated. And I said to him "So if Im sleeping with another guy then thats when its your business right?" he says back "Yes." So I say "But if your sleeping with another girl then its NOT my business at all?" He said back and I kid you not "YES. If you don't know about it then there's a reason." Now I know hes not sleeping with anyone else. But it just got me thinking when do you draw the line?
Like cellphones. In my mind if the phone is in my name [which it is] and Im paying for it [which I am] then that makes whatever in the phone my business right? He maybe the one texting on it but Im paying for that text to be sent. Not that I go throw my boyfriends phone [wouldn't matter he deletes everything i see him do it all the time] but my point is his business to some point is my business.
Another example: If Im making all the money in the relationship. And he's using my visa card to go out with the guys. Isn't it my business where he go's and what he's spending my money on? and vise-versa
So where do you draw the privacy line in the relationship?? |
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| I just read a post on datingish [ http://www.datingish.com/itemthemed.aspx?user=datingish&uid=732548077 ] And after I read the comments it made me think "What do people say about my relationship?" Ive been dating the same guy for almost 4years now. He was 22 and I was 15 when we started dating. And I never looked at our relationship in a gross way. And I never looked at it as just a way for this older man to get some ass. And Im not gonna say I was a mature 15year old. But that he was a immature 22 year old. I mean he was young at heart. And we hit it off right away. He was a complete gentlemen. Although I am not getting married yet and we have no baby. We have been through alot. he moved in with me when I was 17 and we just moved out of state together into our own apartment. We have no plans in getting married our starting a family anytime soon. But we love each other very much. And hes very respectful of my age. He knows that Im young and he wants me to have as much fun as I can before I settle down. Hes amazing and I thank god everyday I got in him my life. And I never once looked at it in a gross way. So for you people thinking that age is important... Well its not. |
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| So my boyfriends a dancer [hiphop]. And no we did not meet in a dance club. We did meet at an arcade. While I was playing Dance Dance Revolution. So its sort of dancing. Anyways back to the point of why Im writing this. My boyfriend seems to think that him being a dancer is why I got with him. Saying that I wouldnt think he was so cute if he wasnt a dancer. When its not the reason [i didnt even know he was a dancer until i realized i saw him on So You Think You Can Dance] [and no he didnt make it.sad.]
So what I wanna ask you is - Do you think having a talent [like dance] makes you look more attractive?
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| Who wouldn't want to date one of these guys?? Okay maybe a few of you wouldn't but I would. Here is my list of my Top 5 Guys Id want just one date with :] 5. Jason Dohring- Yes I would totally date him. He an amazing actor. On Veronica Mars and Moonlight. Maybe its because he played a bad boy on Veronica Mars or because he played a sexy vampire on Moonlight.  4. John Cena - Oh My Gosh. Thats all I have to say. I love wrestling but this just add to my happiness lol.  3. Robert Pattinson - Yeah I would let him bit me. Im just saying. And hes a great actor. I loved him in "Remember Me" He was awesome. Total hottie :]  2. Taylor Lautner - Hes a sexy wolf with strength but is gentle and kind. I would love to go on a date with him. But just one Id hate to date him. To many girls have seen him almost completely naked lmao.  1. Ian Somerhalder - Oh yesssss. Lol. I would totally date him [is he wasn't like 12 years older then me] but hes still hot. Right? I mean he looks good for his age....yeahh *day dreaming* ^_^  |
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| Okay. Time for me to vent.
I am so annoyed right now. I know no one reads this so maybe thats why Im so quick to just say what I feel on here. So here it gos... I HATE GIRLS. Like the girls who NEVER give up. I mean theres nothing to really say. I just HATE those types. The ones that always think they can be "friends" with the guy AFTER she trashed talked his girlfriend. I dont think so. Oh and not to mention while trashing talking his girlfriend they also talk about how much better they are for him. I DONT THINK SO. Fucking slut. Yes I said "fucking" ERRR!! I just HATE her.
Yes. Im talking about someone lets call her [stupid skank bitch who TIRED to steal my boyfriend but didnt because shes a skank and shes crazy for thinking hed leave all this for that *nasty look*] BFS [Boyfriend stealer] So this BFS is really pushing it. And her former bestfriend who is now her bestfriend again. I know kids and there "friends" fights. Well anyways there friends again. And my boyfriend is friends with the former now bestfriend. And Im guess that now she thinks she can talk to him through her "bestfriends" facebook. NOPE. I dont think so. Im not gonna let that happen. Im done with Waldorf [where I use to live] and Im done with her.
She doesnt know who shes up against. I can ruin her 300+miles away.
I need sleep. And I need to figure out what Im gonna do about this. Night all. :]
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